A Tennessee man was recorded on video allegedly harassing a teenage boy who decided to wear a dress to his prom on Saturday night, saying the teenager looked like an “idiot.”
Dalton Stevens, 18, told NBC News on Monday he decided to wear a dress for his senior prom in Franklin, about 20 miles south of Nashville, to show that “clothing is really genderless” and “it has no meaning.”
He was shocked when a grown man began acting “homophobic” as he and his boyfriend, Jacob Geitmann, began taking photos with friends at a hotel before the Franklin High School prom.
According to Stevens, a man approached the couple and asked whether Stevens knew what he was wearing. The man, who has been identified as VisuWell CEO Sam Johnson, allegedly asked why Stevens chose to wear a dress.
“I think I look good in it and that I really like the dress and I want to show that clothing is genderless,” Stevens said he responded. “And I explained that to him and he continued to just call me names and just follow me.”
Stevens alleged that Johnson called him “stupid,” as well as other vulgar names, in a homophobic manner and that Johnson told him that he has “hair on your chest, you shouldn’t be wearing a dress.”
Geitmann began recording at some point during the encounter, when Stevens can be heard telling Johnson that he chose what he wanted to wear and that Johnson could “f— off.” Geitmann can be heard in the video asking Johnson whether he thought Stevens looked “disgusting” and Johnson responds that he does.
Stevens then begins to walk away from Johnson, who follows him and tells Stevens he looks like an “idiot.” Johnson then appears to swat his hand at Geitmann, presumably to knock his phone away, but instead inadvertently hit Stevens, according to the video and Stevens’ account of the situation.
It’s unclear what happened prior to the recording viewed by NBC News and posted online by Geitmann. Geitmann was not immediately available for comment on Monday.
Johnson denied the allegation that he was harassing the couple to Newsweek, claiming the video was edited and that he initially went over because the group of teens were being loud and vulgar.
“We had just sat down for dinner at this restaurant that we frequent, and I was returning from the restroom when I was presented with their loud cursing,” Johnson told Newsweek. “Making it about the dress was their idea and they edited out most of the exchange.”
VisuWell, a telemedicine company, did not respond to a request for comment on the exchange.
Stevens denied ever being loud or cursing prior to Johnson approaching him.
“We never had any type of vulgar language until this gentleman approached and started harassing us,” he said.
The Franklin Police Department said officers responded to the hotel after staff called to report an unwanted person.
Hotel staff told police that the man was involved in a confrontation with teenagers in their courtyard and that they wanted the man, seated at the hotel bar, to leave, according to Franklin Police Lt. Charles Warner.
“He denied any involvement in a confrontation,” Warner said. “Officers advised the man that he would need to close out his ticket and leave the premises, as requested by hotel management.”
Johnson told Newsweek that he left the hotel of his own free will.
Members of the Franklin Police Department have since seen the video of the altercation of the man and the two teenagers, but has not been asked to investigate, Warner said.
“There does not appear to be a record that they or anyone else, besides hotel management, contacted the police about the altercation,” Warner said. “If they do and would like to pursue this matter further, the Department will investigate and assist them with all applicable next steps.”
The hotel did not immediately respond to a request for comment.
Dia Morgan, Stevens’ mother, was not present for the encounter, but said her son was shaken up when she spoke him the next day.
“And then to know that someone found it necessary to come up to him and to do that much hatred,” she said. “It’s heartbreaking for a mother.”
Morgan said she spoke to her son about the language he used in the encounter, but she knows her son “has every bit of courage” that others would want to see in themselves.
“If you let people like this guy continue to do this, then that’s how you beat people’s spirits,” Morgan said. “I mean, I’m incredibly proud of my son.”